Toxic masculinity isn’t just a buzzword—it’s a reality that plays out in everyday conversations, often in the most unnecessary ways. Whether it’s an unprompted declaration of heterosexuality, an overreaction to a harmless discussion, or a defensive posture that makes zero sense, fragile
There are places that live within us long after we’ve walked away. For me, that place is Club Paradise in Lansing, Michigan. It wasn’t just a club—it was a sanctuary, a beating heart of music, sweat, and liberation. It was where I
A Journey of Love, Self-Discovery, and the Power of Letting Go There are songs that seize your soul, refusing to let go. One of those is Pat Benatar’s We Belong. I was driving one evening when it came on the radio, and
Looking back on this moment in time was both hilarious and dangerous. Do not ever do what Jaemonda did in this story. The Clubbing Crew: Ready for Anything Years ago, back when I lived in Lansing, I had a rotating crew of
A depiction of Lind and Martone’s Last Meeting A Snapshot in Time: Lind’s Story Black gay mental health stories often remain untold, but this moment from my past deserves to be shared. By reflecting on this deeply personal experience, I hope to
This article is part of a larger project that will eventually be released as a memoir. I am acutely aware that books are being banned across the country. If this were a book, and if I wrote honestly about love, relationships, and
As we step into a new year, the lyrics of Auld Lang Syne resonate deeply: “Should old acquaintance be forgot, and never brought to mind?” For many, the answer is a resounding no—there are relationships and memories worth cherishing, even if those
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